At dinner with friends last night, I mentioned a recent surreal experience of attending my first Stake Dance in about 100 years. My friend responded, "now that's the kind of thing you need to be blogging about." So, here it is...
- The boys still look perpetually younger and more awkward than the girls, but somehow the girls still haven't noticed this fact.
- There are still those same three young women singing at the top of their lungs, squealing at 30 second intervals, and chronically checking around to ensure that they are seen. (I know... I'm pretty sure I was one of them in 1979.)
- Those poor souls who still haven't figured out that "no one" shows up before 9 pm still wait patiently for the cool ones to arrive, after making the horrible faux pas of arriving on time.
- Slow dances are still performed in a manner that hasn't been seen at a school dance since Eisenhower was president.
- At Stake Dances, Line Dancing has never gone away... and I'm still lost and annoyed every time they play one.
- There are still "It" Songs that draw every kid onto the dance floor like lemmings. Ironically, 30 years later, it's still Journey that does it. (thanks Glee) When "Don't Stop Believin" comes on a gasp is heard through the crowd, and everyone flocks to the center, no one dances, but every kid knows every word and they belt out the song so loudly you can't even hear Steve Perry (thanks Glee).
Although these dances look kind of like a first year course at Arthur Murray's School of Dance and could certainly be described as quaint or less charitably as woefully out of touch, it's delightful to watch youth actually interact so wholesomely in a very unwholesome world.
Seeing these youth moving past all the fears and the obstacles they face and find a way to communicate and connect brought my a little more life to my step and hope for the future. If you want a lift, offer to chaperon a dance (shameless plug for volunteers!), and see that the best things in life haven't changed... Except, sadly, they no longer play Stairway to Heaven for the last dance....